Mix your dates up!
Successful dating is difficult in the modern world where everyone is so busy.
Especially in London, it can be hard to find a connection and make an impact on someone’s life.
I am going to give you a valuable tip which will do a number of things for you:
- Save you time by not wasting a whole night on a date you’re not enjoying.
- Add variety to your dates, making them more fun. Take the girl on a journey and make her feel like she has known you for longer, improving your chances of becoming intimate with her.
The strategy involves you having three venues in mind for your evening; this is best explained by giving you an example of how I used to plan my dates.
Venue 1- Coffee shop / tea shop
A good example is a place on Wardour Street called Princi. Go here first for tea/coffee and have a chat standing up in a busy and bright location. This allows you to get a feel for if there is likely to be any connection in an informal and unpressurised environment. If you’re not having fun at this stage it is reasonable to end the date after an hour (or less).
These are both good venues for this:
http://www.princi.co.uk/
http://www.urbanpath.com/london/cafes/maison-bertaux.htm
Venue 2- Arcade
This is by no means right for every girl, but I often took the girl to an arcade after this to play some pool or arcade games. This can be fun for, say, thirty minutes and should get the two of you laughing together. As you’re walking past the arcade, raise it casually as though you have just considered the idea. Say something like, “We all spend so much time sitting in front of a desk. Wouldn’t it be fun to act like kids again for a bit?” If she seems ice cold to the idea don’t push it but, from my experience, most girls will be open to it.
http://www.yell.com/reviews/las+vegas+amusements-1p42y7q-r
Venue 3- A cosy bar
Find somewhere with comfortable and private seats (as far as possible). As you have already been to two other places, it will feel like you know each other better and, if you are getting on well, you can become more intimate at this stage.
These bars are all great for this:
http://www.redsoho.com/
http://www.22below.co.uk/
http://www.hush.co.uk/
Changing venues like this:
keeps the date fun
gives the impression of knowing each other longer
helps avoid the staleness of sitting in one bar for a couple of hours
makes the final location seem like a nice cosy conclusion to the date
So the next time you are planning a date don’t go for one bar- mix it up with interesting and different venues/activities.
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